Stories are how I make sense of real life — the beautiful parts, the brutal parts, and the messy middle places where we try to understand ourselves, each other, and the world around us.
I write with honesty, humanity, common sense, and no BS because I believe stories can help us feel less alone, see more clearly, and maybe even be better, somehow.
I grew up reading as many books as I could get my hands on.
The pages held places to think, feel, question, escape, understand, and make sense of the world. Those stories led me to writing. And writing was always part of who I was, even before I knew what to do with it.
But life took me down a different path.
I earned a BS in Nursing and spent more than 25 years as a leader and coach in the medical industry, guiding people through challenge, change, pressure, and complexity. Although writing was not my official job title, I found my way back to it again and again.
I wrote newsletters, email communications, marketing materials, policy and procedure manuals, team messages, difficult conversations, and the words people needed when clarity mattered.
I didn’t see it when I was in the weeds. But looking back, I can see it now:
I was always writing.
Then life knocked me down.
And when it did, I had to find the strength to get back up, move forward, and discover who I really was beneath the titles, expectations, survival skills, and stories I had been telling myself.
At first, I just wanted to understand what had happened.
So I started digging.
Into psychology. Emotional intelligence. The Enneagram. Mindfulness. Confidence-building. Human behavior. Healing. Self-trust. Resilience. And so much more.
I kept digging deeper and deeper — for years.
Because I wanted to understand people. I wanted to understand myself. And I wanted to understand how we lose our way, how we find our way back, and why some truths take so long to name.
But there was something else, too.
Somewhere in the middle of what I was living through, I knew I had to do something with it. I knew I had to try to stop what happened to me from happening to at least one other person.
And I knew I would start by telling my story.
That feeling stayed with me until I finally built up the courage to put pen to paper in the summer of 2022. It is what led me to write Blast Radius, and it is still what fuels the work I am doing now.
What began as a desire to help one person has become something much bigger: a mission to create positive change in people — and, eventually, in the world.
Because somewhere along the way, I started noticing something else.
The world had changed.
Somehow, we went from checking on our neighbors to barely saying hello.
Somehow, we became more connected than ever and lonelier than we should be.
Somehow, performance got louder than honesty.
Somehow, kindness started to look like weakness.
Somehow, common sense stopped feeling so common.
And somehow, I still believe life is good.
That is why I write.
I write about real life — the beautiful parts, the brutal parts, and the messy middle places where we try to make sense of ourselves, each other, and the world around us.
My writing is rooted in honesty, humanity, kindness, resilience, common sense, and no BS. I write to cut through the noise, say what often goes unsaid, and help us see more clearly.
I may not have all the answers.
But I believe stories matter. Truth matters. Humanity matters. And kindness should never be mistaken for weakness.
Now, after a long and winding journey, I am sharing my stories with the world — not because life has been perfect, but because it hasn’t.
And maybe that is the point.
Maybe the stories that stay with us are the ones that help us feel less alone. Make us think a little deeper. Make us laugh when we need it most. Tell us the truth even when we are not quite ready for it.
And remind us that we are here to do our part to make the world better, somehow.
Books that leave a mark.
Cats with complicated backstories.
Coffee strong enough to have opinions.
Long rides and new adventures.
People who say the honest thing kindly.
Common sense, when we can find it. The ability to laugh when we can’t.
A good pen, a peaceful morning, and a sentence that finally lands.
Stories that make me laugh, cry, or stare at the ocean for a minute.
A Few Things That Feel Like
Home, heart, and the cats who run the place.
My Husband, Tony
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The Purrrfect Pride
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